"Whatever you have done unto the least you have done to me!"
"First, take the log out of your own eye, then you will see clearly to take the little speck out of someone else's eye."
"It's better for someone to have a heavy stone tied around his neck and thrown into the sea than for that person to offend one of these little children."
1. publicly acknowledge your history by acknowledging that the victims story are true
Is a crime, never mind a sin against your God.
"Unto the pure all things are pure: but unto them that are defiled and unbelieving is nothing pure; but even their mind and conscience is defiled."
"A fool gives full vent to his anger, but a wise man keeps himself under control."
"If we confess our sins, he is faithful and just and will forgive us our sins and purify us from all unrighteousness. If we claim we have not sinned, we make him out to be a liar and his word has no place in our lives."
"Physician, heal thyself"
"Do unto others as you would have others do unto you."
It's churches like yours and followers like you who turn more people away from your God and your Christ than any mythological Satan or Anti-Christ, although that's a convenient excuse.
"Love Thy Neighbor"